Holidays and special occasions are meant to be joyful, but for families caring for someone with dementia, they can bring stress and emotional challenges. With thoughtful planning, these moments can still be meaningful.

At Homecare Gurus, we understand the unique needs of individuals living with dementia. Here are practical tips to help families celebrate special days while ensuring their loved ones feel safe, included, and valued.

Understand Their Needs First

Dementia affects how a person experiences the world. A lively party might feel confusing or overwhelming. Always consider your loved one’s current stage and how they typically respond to noise, crowds, or changes in routine. Choose settings and activities that prioritise their comfort and emotional wellbeing.

Keep It Simple and Familiar

Simple, quiet gatherings in a familiar environment often work best. Stick to routines and use recognisable decorations, music, or food that can bring comfort and spark positive memories. Incorporating traditions they still remember, like a favourite meal or song, can help them feel connected and included.

Choose a Calm and Comfortable Environment

If possible, celebrate at home or in a place your loved one recognises. If the event is elsewhere, bring familiar items like a favourite blanket or family photo. Avoid environments with flashing lights, loud music, or unfamiliar faces, as these can cause confusion and anxiety.

Prepare Guests in Advance

Not everyone may understand the realities of dementia. Gently prepare guests ahead of time, especially children, by explaining any noticeable changes and offering guidance on how to communicate kindly and patiently. Encourage guests to go with the flow and avoid correcting or challenging your loved one.

Involve Them in Meaningful Ways

Inclusion boosts a sense of purpose. Depending on their ability, involve your loved one in safe, simple tasks like helping to stir a dish, setting the table, or handing out cards. These roles can provide joy and a sense of participation.

Be Aware of Fatigue and Overstimulation

Celebrations can be tiring. Watch for signs of fatigue like irritability or withdrawal. Schedule activities during times of day when your loved one is most alert, and have a quiet room available where they can rest if needed.

Focus on the Moment

Your loved one may not remember the celebration later, but they will remember how they felt. Focus on creating a calm, loving atmosphere. A smile, gentle touch, or shared moment of laughter can have lasting emotional impact.

How Homecare Gurus Can Help

At Homecare Gurus, our carers are trained to provide compassionate, dementia-friendly support—even during holidays or special occasions. Whether you need help with planning, respite care, or one-to-one support on the day, we are here for you.

Celebrating with a loved one living with dementia takes patience, empathy, and flexibility. It’s okay if things don’t go perfectly. What matters most is creating an atmosphere of love, safety, and inclusion.

Need support during the holidays? Contact Homecare Gurus today to learn more about our dementia care services.